THanks!

I believe the above to be the male.

and this one the female...

the male again... he's stressed from being in the styro, so hes a bit green.......

the female again.

Male...

I think the male again?

I dont know which one


FEmale maybe??
ANyways, thanks for looking, hopefully I got a pair... hopefully you can give me advice. I dont have a good enough camera to zoom in on the heads or pectoral fins, but the one I think is a male has very very tiny odontodes (or whatevers) on his pectoral fins, and the one I think is a female is nice and smooth...
THANKS!